No, I should've thought of it. [Sitting with her hands folded in her lap as the carriage pulls out.] I've been invisible before. How many people might've thought I just didn't want anyone to talk to me?

[She glances over at him, helpless.]

It's hard to learn from your own life, isn't it? It's so much easier to learn from what you see other people do. But that's not the important part.